Think.

Facebook is public, no doubt. So can I say the things that I really intend to say here? I know I have been doing that ever since I created this blog but of course, most of them are being censored. Hence, I had to post a few things and those who love to interpret it and assume it, will end up understanding it for all the wrong things and wrong meanings but hey, at least you got my points right?

All I am saying is, when you do something, you have to own up to your actions, be it wrong or right. Own up would mean, not passing any responsibilities to another person because, you , yourself don't feel like taking the blame for it. I'll give just a small example. You promised a friend to go out for a movie. A movie that she has always wanted to see. Say, Valentines Day. She was all excited and hyped then, out of a sudden, you canceled on her. Of course, of course, she will be angry because she has always wanted to go see the movie. In the end, she sulked and you would have to go and talk to her and all. So, basically, she SULKED.

Ohh, given the example above, I would like to say sorry to Puteri for giving her some hope that we will be going on a holiday together. Haha. I am trying to make it up to you now and I am making it happen alright ;) Sure, she was angry with me for giving her all the janji janji manis. Haha.


Back to the main topic, that was a small promise. So what happens if the promise is about something big. For example, marriage. A boy promised a girl that he wanted to marry her, someday. Someday is a long way into the future. As for now, that thing is not happening. How would you think the girl would react? If you broke a small promise, your friend would sulk. So, if you broke a big promise, your friend would..............

I don't know. That's why. Think thoroughly or just don't think at all.

I am just saying, with no intention to hurt anyone. Bosan.

ps : Ignorance is bliss. But, hell, I can't just ignore everything.